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July 14, 2019

Living with an invisible disability is sometimes a blessing and sometimes a curse. On one side of this double edged sword I feel fear of being misunderstood, constantly battling people doubting me and thinking I'm pretending - including doctors - and getting completely...

October 25, 2018

I've been living in Melbourne for over a year now. I'm watching the trees in my yard go through the same changes I've seen once before. It's been a whole cycle. Granted, I wasn't always here to witness all of it, but there is the recognition of 'oh yes, thats right - p...

August 27, 2018

Enthusiastic consent. I love it. But what if it's not always that simple? Now let me preface this by saying that I in no way condone sexual assault of any kind. This topic can be triggering so please stop reading if you need to. If not, bear with me. I'll explain what...

May 14, 2018

They describe Hell as being a hot hot place. It seems Hell froze over, the day I visited. It was midwinter. In Lithgow. Which, if you're not familiar with the Blue Mountains, is a damn cold place. And of course, I was naked.

I posed for photographer and artistic collabo...

April 20, 2018

My complete pleasure is a myth... no longer.

For too long, I believed my pleasure to be real and complete, when it was actually fragmented. It was partial. Not integrated or whole. Here is a piece of this story, from fragmented fucks to holistic pleasure.

Picture a s...

March 27, 2018

We know that sex has health benefits. It stimulates circulation and improves cholesterol, lowers pain and generally makes us feel good – thank you endorphins. But one thing that keeps coming up for me is the way sex interplays with emotional pain. Particularly the emot...

December 29, 2016

A song starts playing as I write this. Unexpectedly, a tune I listened to while having mind blowing sex with a beloved. In fact, a great example of someone whom I could never shove in one of the boxes society presents me. I mean, I suppose lover would do. We were lover...

October 15, 2016

This is an example of the kind of thing I eat every morning. Its a beetroot, rockmelon, watercress, ginger, mint, magnesium powder, super green powder, protein powder smoothie with some kind of super grains mix, tahini and blueberries. (This is rather tame compared to...

October 4, 2016

I thought I was simply polyamorous. Until last night. A friend used the term #relationshipanarchy in a self portrait on Instagram, which lead to the enlightening discovery that I am not just poly, I’m a relationship anarchist. Sounds intimidating!

I had been chatting to...

September 18, 2016

I'm in Tathra on the far south coast of NSW. My father Damian and step-mum Nina live here, surrounded by beautiful views and glorious flora and fauna. It's springtime. I'm halfway to Earthsong Witch Camp in Victoria. And I've been 'Running The Iron Pentacle'. (for more...

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